Okay...hear us out on this one...
This may not work for those who won't get REAL and won't make time to work on this material, to find the right way for them over time. They constantly find excuses or blame others on why things cannot change. They're not willing to stop or change the things that limit their success. They're not willing to try on new things, even if they're not 100% sure they'll work. They closed their mind to new ways and choices, they may be chronic skeptics. They may appear to do the work, but don't really mean it. They have no real sense of personal accountability.
Their approach has a positive benefit in their blind spot though, even if it's a self-limiting position. Reasons to stay stuck may be self-protection, security, status - it's unique to them. Why? Everyone is trying their best with what they have. The issue is that the limiting patterns are trying to serve a positive benefit deep down and often out of awareness, HOWEVER, in real life experience they're likely to achieve the sharp opposite, misaligned to desired outcomes. This is not only confirmed by the science, it's also been our experience in the past. We've been there! It's okay, it's called being human. No judgment. The point is that there're better or worse strategies to learning and change, and the "how to" matters.
If these are behavioural patterns you recognise in yourself and you are not willing to challenge them to move forward, probably we're not going to work well together.
If you're willing to stretch yourself beyond them at a pace that works for you, we'd love to work with you!
We have examples of past clients, who didn't believe in the process, and were quite skeptical at the start. They thanked us for the positive transformation in the end. Trust the process and trust the infinite potential of your nervous system to learn and adapt. The science confirms it's possible for all and it's never too late.
You haven't given up, this is why you're reading this. We're not giving up on people either! Stay open, stay coachable - it's your decision.